How to know Mr True Love in 8 easy steps

This is how you find True Love that lasts! How to know you have found the right One.

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Step 1: Being Present

Mr True Love knows how to be present in the moment. He focuses on what’s happening in the here and now.

He will put his phone down and give you his full attention. He will be willing to accept change easily when your plans change.

This person is not weighed down with emotional baggage and he isn’t hiding in an emotional stewing pot that you can’t access or go to.

He likes to make lots of eye contact and conversation will always be current, not focused on the past or the future.

Step 2: Self-Disclose

Mr True Love will be happy and willing to reveal his inner thoughts and feelings with you - this is the connection to his inner world with you.

This ability is one of the most important in an ideal partner. Openness and honesty are everything.

Revealing facts about our lives is important but the ability to share feelings about them is relevant in creating closeness in an ideal partnership.

Revealing this will show you that he sees you as a potential confidante, an emotional connection he feels comfortable to share his thoughts and feelings with you.

His guard is down and he is opening himself to you, showing vulnerability and an open-hearted nature.

Step 3: Accepting New Information

Mr True Love will be open and willing to get to know you in simple, easy stages.

This allows the falling in love process to move forward easily.

He isn’t falling in love with a fantasy woman, but a real woman.

He looks forward to getting to know you better and is attentive and interested in learning more about you - your interests, hobbies work and family.

He will let go of mental constructs he believed he knew before he knew you well.

There is excitement in accepting new information and it also allows emotional, mental and physical bonds to expand and grow in a healthy, loving and fulfilling way.

Step 4: Reciprocate

Mr True Love knows the dance of give and take. He is attentive, self-assured and in the act of giving, you are the most important person on his mind.

He will know how to give you your moment and will listen intently to what you are saying.

He isn’t self-centred or self-effacing. He is aware that neither of these things work well for creating closeness.

He sees interaction as fun and loves easy banter and laughter. He doesn’t need or want to be the centre of the universe.

You will never feel neglected as equality is a high priority for this man.

Step 5: Responding Appropriately

Mr True Love notices when you need attention and responds appropriately and accordingly, especially during times of intimacy.

The attention he gives you is on an emotional level of connectedness, closeness and passion.

He is open to sharing and will make you feel understood, validated and cared for which are attributes needed in intimate closeness.

He is responsive and open and you will feel accepted on a deep personal level, far beyond the physical sensation of touch or physical pleasure.

You feel so cared for and loved in this kind of relationship and will want it to last.

Step 6: Expressing Emotions

Mr True Love is well-versed in the language of feelings. Feelings and the ability to express them are vital in a healthy loving relationship.

He will be comfortable sharing how he feels about the important aspects in his life.

His facial expression will be sincere and his body language will be fluid and open.

He will laugh often, show compassion and consideration for all things. It is here that you will discover that shared interests and values will be similar and familiar.

His feeling language will often include the words ‘I love”. He will foster closeness when you spend time together.

Step 7: Taking Responsibility

Mr True Love will understand and believe that personal responsibility in a relationship is an essential skill for the both of you.

He will own his actions and not blame you if anything goes wrong. He will recognise the part he plays if your feelings are hurt.

He carries ownership of his thoughts and feelings and will listen and communicate openly to what needs to be said. He will not play the blame game and will be quick to apologise.

Step 8: Accept Caring

Mr True Love is a caring, wonderful man who has full disclosure and no expectation of you becoming his mother or rescuer. That's a relief!

Caring is not caretaking. This lovely man will give you the care and attention you need and desire and he will be open and ready for you to do the same.

The ability to care for each other creates the paradise of the garden of love we are meant to know and live.

Cherishing and experiencing love is the nectar of life.

There you have my 8 easy steps to find True Love that lasts. When you follow these steps you will be well on your way to finding your One True Love!

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